Intimacy & Embodiment Coaching

I offer Intimacy and Embodiment Coaching as an opportunity for development and skill-building around consent and boundaries, touch, relational skills, and sex, sexuality and pleasure. You might be coming with particular goals or things you’d like to learn, or part of our work together may be the journey of figuring out what that is for you.

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Intimacy & Embodiment Coaching brings together my training in Somatic Sex Education, Sexological Bodywork, Mind-Body Coaching and the Wheel of Consent, using body-based practice, education and touch to support your erotic and embodiment goals.

Every session is built around a clear learning objective and invites you into a space where you can build skills, confidence, and capacity in your erotic and relational life—whether that’s learning to live in your body with greater presence and pleasure, honouring your boundaries, or growing your ability to ask for what you want.

Choice and agency is paramount and any touch that happens in session is client-led, always in service to you, and relevant to your learning or intentions. You are supported to take this learning into your own lives and relationships, which means I may, where relevant, encourage self-touch rather than my own, and encourage you to book in with those you share intimacy with so you can practice together.

This work values and encourages pleasure and curiosity, even where the learning is in finding it or creating enough safety in the body so that it can be possible.

I welcome all genders, bodies and abilities, LGBTIQA+ folks, and those engaged in kink & BDSM, alternative relationship structures and sex work.

I abide by the SSEAA (Somatic Sex Educators Association of Australasia) Code of Conduct and centre safety, professionalism, and consent in my practice.

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Possible areas of learning & development

  • Consent, boundaries and communication

  • Sex, sexuality and eroticism

  • Nervous system regulation

  • Relationships and intimacy

  • Gender exploration and affirmation

  • Masturbation habits and self-pleasure

  • Shame and anxiety

  • Identity and sense of self

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Is this right for me?

Intimacy & Embodiment Coaching is educational in nature, and while it is trauma-informed and may have therapeutic benefit it does not involve the diagnosis or treatment of trauma or other mental health conditions.

This work is best suited to those who are not currently in crisis or experiencing daily mental health challenges, and to those who already have some tools and strategies for managing any history of trauma or related challenges.

Those seeking therapeutic support rather than coaching or education may find that my Somatic Counselling service is a better fit.

Those seeking a sexual experience or release (rather than erotic education) may find that a sex worker is a better fit, in which case I’m happy to refer.

If you’re still unsure about whether this service is right for you feel free to get in touch and we can work it out together.

Session Pricing:

60 min session: $165

Online and in-person sessions available.

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What to expect in a session

Sessions often begin with a brief grounding or body awareness practice and a discussion about how you are, what brings you here, and any relevant history.

We work together to identify an intention or learning objective for the session or our work together more broadly, and you’ll be offered some options for practices we might explore in service to that. Practices often involve the use of breath, sound, movement, touch or placement of awareness, depending on the learning objective and what feels most supportive for you.

Once we agree on what we’ll be doing and how, you will be supported to experience and experiment with the chosen practice, guiding you to stay present and curious, usually pausing at regular intervals to check-in, discuss and adapt the practice as needed.

Nearing the end of the session there will be time for reflection, co-creation of a home practice to integrate and continue your learning, and discussion of possible next steps for future sessions.